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Navigating Difficult Issues & Parenting Through The Chaos

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Subject Line: Navigating Difficult Issues

Dear Parents,

More than likely, you are moving at warp speed through life, and there is little time to step back, take a breath, or realize what is going on with your kids. We all know that there is so much “coming at” them, and they often have no idea how to process what they are thinking or what they believe. The world is a complex place with complex issues, and there are lots of landmines for us to step in as we seek to teach and lead our kids. Well, there is hope, and we want to encourage you along the way.

This month, we are going to provide you with some resources targeted at helping you think through how you will help your children navigate some of the difficult issues they are facing. The way we interact with our kids as they sort out what they believe really matters, and we have some tools for you to both think through how you are leading as well as talk to your kids about it all. Our Online Parenting Class Video and the Toolbox Resource entitled Hope In The Midst Of Trouble are designed to help you provide your child with reminders of God’s goodness, His faithfulness, and His promises. They are helpful resources you can use to open ongoing conversations with your kid(s)—reminding them of God’s character, the hope He offers, and that even if they feel that God is far away, the truth of His Word is everlasting.

To watch this month’s Online Parenting Class video, click the link below.

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Cheering you on,

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Subject Line: Parenting Through The Chaos

Dear Parents,

As you think about all the things your family is having to deal with on a daily basis, it can be a little overwhelming. You have to get up, get ready, get everyone else ready, get out the door to school and work, get everyone to their afternoon and evening activities, push or bribe your child to finish their homework, and maybe (if you are lucky) you get to eat somewhere along the way. Not only do you have to navigate your normal schedules, but you also have to navigate and help your child learn to navigate the increasingly difficult issues that exist in the world. Your kid(s) are being bombarded with new and increasingly difficult challenges or decisions about things they have no way to process. As a parent, you probably already feel like you are at a loss for what to do, where to help, and how to engage.

Dealing with difficult issues is not new in the world, but it does seem like they are coming faster and with greater intensity than they once did. The good news is that when it comes to helping a child think through and deal with the difficult issues of life, there are some practical things that you can do to help them develop the solid spiritual foundation that we all want them to have. Much of what you can do revolves around building real relationships, having open/honest conversations, and spending time in prayer. This can take a lot of work and can even be a little intimidating for many, but it’s so worth it because just these simple steps can have more of an impact than most parents realize. This month’s resources, like the blog article “Heartache and Hope,” will offer you some encouragement and practical ideas on what you can do to help your kid(s) navigate this chaotic world. And if you haven’t watched this month’s encouraging Online Parenting Class video, you still have time. To read the blog article or watch the video, click on the links below.

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We are in this together! Let us know if there is ever anything we can do for you or your family.

Praying for you as you lead at home,

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M2P October KIDS Parent Video Script

In his book, War in the Wilderness: Fight for Your Family When Life Isn’t as It Should Be, Brian Haynes says, “Between the gardens, Eden (Paradise) and New Jerusalem (Peace), there is only the desert; a biblical metaphor for life and the place we are loving and leading our family, our spouse, our children, and our grandchildren.”

Our desire is to enjoy peace in our family, and that’s God’s heart for us, too. We certainly wouldn’t choose to walk through the wilderness where difficulty and suffering abound. But the reality of a world broken by sin, our own and that of others, is that life will be hard. In John 16:33, Jesus said, “In this world you will have trouble.” And we can certainly identify trouble wherever we turn and feel it deeply when it arises in our own lives, especially when it has to do with our children.

In the last decade or so, culture has planted some giant landmines for parents to navigate. In addition to conversations about divorce, illness, death, and others that children have brought up for a long time, we now face issues like sexual orientation, gender dysphoria, body shaming, self-harm, depression, and anxiety. At the core of these ever-expanding topics is identity. The Enemy wants nothing more than to interfere with a child’s thinking and use these cultural norms to twist God’s truth about who and whose they are.

As your child grows, there are several tools you can employ to explain and counteract culture’s messages.

Continually talk to your children about their identity in Christ. Things like God created you, He knew you before you were born, He loves you, He chose you, and you are made in His image. Use scripture, like Genesis 1:27, Psalm 139:13-14, and Ephesians 2:10, to show them God’s words about who they are. As they get older, help them memorize those verses.

Another tool to develop is to embrace the idea that no topic is taboo in your home. You want your children to get their information about the world from you. Children are inquisitive. They notice things. They ask questions. They want answers. It’s best to answer your child in an age-appropriate way. A 4-year-old doesn’t need the same kind or as much information you would share with a 10-year-old. When tough issues come up, don’t shy away from uncomfortable conversations. You want them to learn they can come to you with anything long before they enter their adolescent years.

Something else you can do is to be knowledgeable about tough topics and what God has to say about them. If your child puts you on the spot or you feel like the time is right to bring something up, you don’t want to feel like you have no idea what to say. Seek other trusted Christians for resources like books or articles to help give you more insight. Your children’s pastor, youth pastor, or a Christian counselor would be great people to ask for information. If your child asks a question you aren’t yet prepared to answer or they’re not ready for the information, it’s okay to tell him or her you’ll come back with an answer later. I will answer you later or will tell you when you’re a little older.

The last but most important tool you have is prayer. Your kids are being inundated with these weighty issues at younger and younger ages. It can leave you feeling overwhelmed, heart aching, and mind worried about your family being affected personally in these areas. When these thoughts and feelings rise up, pray continually.

The Lord knows the burdens you carry for your children, and He wants you to leave them in His capable hands. And if you can’t find the words to pray, the Bible says to ask the Holy Spirit to intercede for you.

I want to leave you with an encouraging truth. John 16:33, in its entirety, says, “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” Jesus is our peace, strength, and victory.

9.1.23

Your September Resources Are Here!

Several times a year, we head into a new “season,” if you will. I’m not talking about a change in the weather, but I am talking about new seasons of sports that crank up with our kids. Even if you and your family aren’t really that much into sports yourselves, you will no doubt feel the impact of sports on your church and the children’s ministry that you lead. People may not be as present at your ministry events or services as we would like them to be due to all of the practices, games, tournaments, and travel-ball schedules. Parents are often overwhelmed and seem absent-minded as they attempt to juggle their entire family’s calendar, which includes a myriad of work deadlines, school functions, doctor appointments, family-specific events, birthday parties, social commitments, sports, and church. There is so much going on that it’s hard for most parents to keep up, much less try to “keep the main thing, the main thing” for themselves and their families. Our hopes and prayers are that faith and gathering to worship will be at the top of their list, but often it just isn’t. That’s why part of our job as children’s ministry leaders in the church is to come alongside these parents and families to support and encourage them as they try to navigate it all. However, if we’re completely honest, we can often have a pretty negative outlook and attitude when the families who are part of our churches make decisions to prioritize sports. Our first thought is often scoffing and judging, then it is supporting and encouraging.

This month’s M2P resources are designed to equip and maybe even challenge you a little, as a children’s ministry leader, to explore a different approach when it comes to helping families navigate the tension they (and you) feel between church and sports. Instead of setting up a church vs. sports mentality, we, as children’s ministry leaders, have to figure out how to work with and minister to families that are heavily involved in sports. We’re here to help you do just that.

Our Blog Articles and  Coaching Video will provide you with thoughtful insights, creative ideas, and practical steps you and your children’s ministry can take to lead families well in the midst of all that they have vying for their time and attention. Our Online Parenting Class Video and this month’s Toolbox Resource entitled Huddle Up will give parents an opportunity to have a little fun with their kids as they talk together about the role sports play in their family’s life, how faith can integrate with sports, and encourage their kids to grow in their faith through sports while also living out that faith on the field of competition.

And don’t forget to listen to the latest episode of the M2P Podcast with Stuart Hall—a widely recognized speaker, author, and thought leader in the areas of youth ministry, children’s ministry, and family ministry. Check it all out, and let us know how we can better serve you as you seek to serve the parents in your church.

 

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As we tackle this conversation about faith and sports (see what we did there?), it’s time to ask parents to “huddle up” with their families (too much?) and have a conversation. This month’s Toolbox Resource entitled Huddle Up will give parents an opportunity to have a little fun with their kids as they talk together about the role sports play in their family’s life. Parents will also be able to talk about how faith can integrate with sports and encourage their kids to pay attention to both how they are growing in their faith through sports and living out that faith on the field of competition.

HOW TO USE IT

  • Download Huddle Up and post it on your website.
  • Email parents a copy of the Toolbox Resource and encourage them to set aside some time to prayerfully and thoughtfully work through it as a family.
  • Print copies of the Toolbox Resource for parents to grab at church and let them know where they can pick it up.

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If we’re honest, there are more times than not when we encounter families who have placed sports as a high priority in the rhythm of their family, and it really gets under our skin. You may have even grimaced a bit just reading that sentence. We get it—the time those kids and families are spending at practices, games, and traveling is taking them away from a lot of good things that you have worked hard to plan and offer them at church (and they just aren’t around very much). That being said, if we aren’t careful, we can subtly (or maybe even directly) find ourselves in a “church versus sports” state of mind and attitude. As children’s ministry leaders, we can’t let that state of mind or that attitude take root. Even though we may struggle with how we can best engage these families who are not as physically present as we would like for them to be, our focus should be answering the same ministry question we are always asking: How do we best come alongside, support, and minister to these kids and families who the Lord has placed under our care? How can we influence and support kids and parents to follow Jesus and live for His glory (yes, even the ones who have placed a high priority on athletics)? It can be a real tension within our own minds as well as within the walls of our churches. That’s why in this month’s coaching video, we want to give you and those who serve alongside you some practical ideas on how you can maybe shift your focus (maybe even your church’s focus) to support, encourage, and disciple the kids and families who have made sports a central part of their lives.

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Lots of parents are trying to help their kids grow, develop, and mature by getting them involved in sports. Almost all of us would agree that sports are a way for kids to get some exercise, learn how to work hard/navigate obstacles, meet some new friends, learn teamwork, build community, and maybe have some success. There are a lot of benefits to sports, and many parents have experienced those benefits themselves. But if we’re not careful, we, as parents, can quickly cross a very dangerous and thin line where sports become a place of unrealistic expectations, unnecessary pressures, misplaced identity, and living out our own dreams/perceived shortcomings through our kids. Our kids’ sports and sports schedules can also quickly begin to dominate the family calendar. Our job as parents is NOT to push our kids to be the best they can be in sports but to use sports as a vehicle to help them become the men or women God has created them to be. It can be a heck of a journey, but if we keep it all in perspective, sports can be a place where our kids grow in their faith and live that faith out in incredible ways.

This month’s Online Parenting Class will help parents think through how they can navigate sports, especially in relation to the church and faith.

To view, click HERE.

New blog posts coming this month:

  • For Kids’ Ministry Leaders: “Sports: Not the Enemy We’ve Made Them Out to Be” by Amy Diller
  • For Kids’ Ministry Parents: “Church and Sports: Finding Balance” by Amy Diller
  • For Youth Ministry Leaders: “Partnering with Parents Through Church and Sports” by Karin Sasser
  • For Youth Ministry Parents: “Navigating Teens and Sports” by Karin Sasser

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Ministering To Families Whose Kids Love Sports

If we’re honest, there are more times than not when we encounter families who have placed sports as a high priority in the rhythm of their family, and it really gets under our skin. You may have even grimaced a bit just reading that sentence. We get it—the time those kids and families are spending at practices, games, and traveling is taking them away from a lot of good things that you have worked hard to plan and offer them at church (and they just aren’t around very much). That being said, if we aren’t careful, we can subtly (or maybe even directly) find ourselves in a “church versus sports” state of mind and attitude. As children’s ministry leaders, we can’t let that state of mind or that attitude take root. Even though we may struggle with how we can best engage these families who are not as physically present as we would like for them to be, our focus should be answering the same ministry question we are always asking: How do we best come alongside, support, and minister to these kids and families who the Lord has placed under our care? How can we influence and support kids and parents to follow Jesus and live for His glory (yes, even the ones who have placed a high priority on athletics)? It can be a real tension within our own minds as well as within the walls of our churches. That’s why in this month’s coaching video, we want to give you and those who serve alongside you some practical ideas on how you can maybe shift your focus (maybe even your church’s focus) to support, encourage, and disciple the kids and families who have made sports a central part of their lives.

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Helping Your Child Navigate Life, Sports, And Spiritual Growth

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Subject Line: Navigating Life and Our Kid’s Sports

Dear Parents,

For many of you, your life and family calendar are probably filled with carting your kid(s) around to practices, games, tournaments, and matches of all different types. It can be a lot of fun but, if we’re honest, it can be exhausting too. As a parent, you may need to take a little time to evaluate what a life overrun with sports is doing to your kid(s), their development, and their faith.

If your family is into sports or you think that someday they might be, this month’s resources for parents will help you better lead your family as you navigate all the things that come with being involved in, when it comes to your kid’s athletics. As your Children’s Ministry leaders, we want to come alongside you, equip you, and minister to you and your family as your kid(s) are engaged in sports. So, make sure that you check out The Online Parenting Class and the Toolbox Resource we have for you that is entitled Huddle Up. These resources will give you an opportunity to have a little fun with your kid(s) as you talk together about the role sports play in your family’s life, how faith can integrate with sports, and encourage your kid(s) to grow in their faith through sports while also living out that faith on the field of competition.

To watch this month’s Online Parenting Class video, click the link below.

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You can do this! We are always here for you if you need us.

Cheering you on,

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Subject Line: Let Them Play

Dear Parents,

We all know that we live in a culture that is saturated with sports. We watch sports, we talk about sports, and many of your kid(s) play some level of sports or have friends who do. Being on a team or learning how to master athletic skills can be incredibly beneficial for our kid(s). They learn so much, meet new people, and get to experience the thrill of competition. But often, being involved in sports can become a chore for your kid(s). How can you lead them to enjoy their experience and just play? Remember, your job as a parent is NOT to push your kid(s) to be the best they can be in sports but to use sports as a vehicle to help them become the men or women God has created them to be. It can be a heck of a journey, but if you can keep it all in perspective, sports can be a place where your kid(s) grow in their faith and live that faith out in incredible ways.

Check out this month’s blog article, “Church & Sports—Finding Balance,” and the Toolbox Resource entitled Huddle Up for some much-needed encouragement, some conversation cues to open up discussion, and some practical ideas as to what you can do as their parent to help your kid(s) learn how they can navigate sports, especially in relation to the church and their faith.

And if you haven’t watched this month’s encouraging Online Parenting Class Video, you still have time. To read the blog article or watch the video, click on the links below.

[ INSERT LINK TO M2P PARENTING BLOG ARTICLE ]

[ INSERT LINK TO M2P ONLINE PARENTING CLASS VIDEO ]

We are in this together! Let us know if there is ever anything we can do for you or your family.

Praying for you as you lead at home,

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M2P September KIDS Parent Video Script

For most of us as parents, we get to a point in life where we think, OK, I wonder if my kid is going to like sports. Sports are a prominent part of our culture, other families around us are a part of sports, maybe we were involved in sports as we grew up, and it’s often kind of in our face in a lot of different ways. We have these moments where we either talk to our kids about signing them up for a lesson or a team, or we just do it. It seems like most of us believe that there is an inherent benefit for our kids in playing sports, so we want to see if they like it and decide to make sports a part of their lives.

Then, if our kids stay involved in sports, there begin to be layers of things that we have to figure out and deal with. Sports can quickly begin to dominate the family calendar. Sports can trigger lots of emotions, good and bad. And hey … let’s be honest … we, as adults, can get wrapped up in the emotion of what it means for our kids to play sports.

As someone who grew up in a big sports family, as a parent who has helped my kids navigate sports for a long time, and as someone who has been a high school coach for almost 25 years, I’d love to offer you some suggestions for when it comes to leading your kids through their sports journey.

First … Don’t overload your kids when it comes to sports. Don’t fill their calendar with lots of commitments from teams at an early age. Kids still need to be kids. You may think that you could have the next Michael Jordan, Tom Brady, or Lionel Messi on your hands, but chances are you don’t. Sorry to burst that bubble. Like I mentioned, I’ve been a high school coach for over two decades, and I have seen way too many kids get burned out from sports by the time they get to late middle school or early high school. Don’t let sports overly dominate your family calendar as your kids are young.

Similarly, when it comes to sports, let them play. What I mean by that is don’t put too much pressure on your kids to be great. Just let them be a kid and enjoy the moments. So many teenagers and young adults are crumbling today because of the pressure they feel to perform, and this often starts at an early age in the area of sports. Do whatever you can to help your kids enjoy what they are a part of instead of looking at it as a chore or something that weighs them down. Remember that you’re not their coach… unless you are. And, side note, if you are, keep the coaching for the field or the court, not the car ride or the kitchen table. I heard a great encouragement years ago from a guy named Ted Williams and the Change the Game Project. He encourages parents that the only thing you need to say to your kids after an athletic contest is this. “I love to watch you play.” That’s it. Don’t talk about their technique, what they did right or wrong, what they could’ve done better, or anything when it comes to their performance. Just let them know that as their parent, you love watching them play and you are proud of them.

And when it comes to faith, find ways to help your kids begin to integrate their faith into their sports at an early age. I can remember being in the car when my kids were going into practice or tryouts or something, and I would ask my kids if I could pray for them as they headed into event. I would ask them what I could pray about, and then we’d pray.

Finally, talk to your kids about what it looks like to live out their faith on the field or on the court. That can be as simple as encouraging the other kids, being a good listener and follower when it comes to the coaches, and being kind in the midst of their competition. Kids can learn to do their best and compete while still showing respect to their opponents. Help your kids internalize what Paul says in ________: Whatever you do, in word or deed, do it all for the glory of God. If our kids can learn to truly play for God instead of themselves (or for you), they can have a tremendous impact on those around them.

Finally, think about what you want to celebrate when it comes to how your kids experience sports. Maybe don’t focus on celebrating how many goals they scored, shots they made, plays they made, or whether they won. Maybe celebrate that time, or they helped another kid up off the floor when they fell down, or when they encouraged someone who was struggling. If we can celebrate the way they are growing in their character instead of how well they perform, maybe their character will develop in a deeper way than it would otherwise.

Sports can be a big part of your family’s life, and the experiences can be great. They also can take over and dominate and send us all down a worldly path that leads us away from a real faith in God. So take some time to think through how you want to help your family, and specifically your kids, experience sports in a good and healthy way that helps them grow in their faith and not be drawn away from their faith.

 

8.1.23

Your August Resources Are Here!

As children’s ministry leaders who tend to focus on our specific ministry age group, we can sometimes miss a critical piece of the discipleship process. Sure, kids need to spend time in and around their age groups as they grow in their faith. Still, it is just as vital for them to experience intergenerational relationships and glean from the wisdom of older generations. The exchange of ideas, experiences, and perspectives that can be shared between different generations has the power and the potential to cultivate a deep sense of unity and understanding of God that will enrich the lives of both the younger and older members. When we, as children’s ministry leaders, are intentional about creating and cultivating ways to bridge generational gaps in our families, ministries, churches, and communities, we create fertile ground and boundless opportunities for spiritual growth, mentorship, accountability, understanding, wisdom, grace, and encouragement that didn’t exist prior. What would it look like in your children’s ministry if you were to be more intentional when it comes to including intergenerational discipleship opportunities? What would it look like in your church if it took a step (or a few steps) towards creating and cultivating intergenerational relationships and leading individuals of all generations to embrace their unique callings and purpose?

This month’s M2P resources are designed to help you, as a children’s ministry leader, embrace and take a step (or multiple steps) toward intentional generational discipleship. We believe that embracing intergenerational discipleship can strengthen your children’s ministries, churches, and communities and equip the next generations (who are in your children’s ministry right now) with the tools they need to carry forward a rich spiritual heritage and foster a vibrant and enduring legacy of faith.

Our Blog Articles and  Coaching Video will provide you with thoughtful insights, creative ideas, and practical steps your ministry can take to move your church into more intergenerational moments and ministry. Our Online Parenting Class Video and this month’s Toolbox Resource entitled The 4 I’s of Intended Influence: A Parent’s Guide To Intentional Intergenerational Discipleship will encourage and equip the parents within your span of care to be more intentional when it comes to guiding their kids in the development of intergenerational relationships. And don’t forget to listen to the latest episode of the M2P Podcast with Christina Embree—a widely recognized speaker, writer, and thought leader in the areas of generational discipleship, intergenerational ministry, and family ministry. Check it all out, and let us know how we can better serve you as you seek to serve the parents in your church.

He established a testimony in Jacob and appointed a law in Israel, which He commanded our fathers to teach to their children, that the next generation might know them, the children yet unborn, and arise and tell them to their children, so that they should set their hope in God and not forget the works of God, but keep His commandments; and that they should not be like their fathers, a stubborn and rebellious generation, a generation whose heart was not steadfast, whose spirit was not faithful to God.

– Psalm78:5-8 ESV

The M2P Team

 

When parents are intentional about identifying and inviting trusted intergenerational voices (outside of their own) to speak into the life of their kids, they create fertile ground and boundless opportunities for spiritual growth, mentorship, accountability, maturity, wisdom, and encouragement. Connecting kids to hand-selected older, wiser adults who are then invited to challenge, enlighten, walk alongside, and provide another voice of wisdom and maturity is a critical and often overlooked part of faith development and discipleship. That’s why the team at M2P has created this Toolbox Resource entitled The 4 I’s of Intended Influence: A Parent’s Guide To Intentional Intergenerational Discipleship that will encourage and equip parents with the tools they need to identify and invite trusted intergenerational voices to influence and provide a lasting impact in the lives of their kids.

HOW TO USE IT

  • Download The 4 I’s of Intended Influence: A Parent’s Guide To Intentional Intergenerational Discipleship and post it on your website.
  • Email parents a copy of the Toolbox Resource and encourage parents to set aside some time to prayerfully and thoughtfully work through it.
  • Print copies of the Toolbox Resource for parents to grab at church and let them know where they can pick it up.

To view or download, click HERE.

We all know (or we will after this month’s M2P resources) that connecting kids to caring adults who model maturity and healthy faith is a critical part of their spiritual development. If, as children’s ministry leaders or volunteers in these ministries, we can foster intergenerational relationships and create an atmosphere of intergenerational discipleship, the kids in our church will be much more likely to develop a life-long faith that will have a profound and lasting impact on them. This month’s coaching videos encourage you and those who serve on your children’s ministry teams to look at your ministry area through the lens of intergenerational discipleship and take a step (or a few steps) by implementing a few things that will help to facilitate meaningful relationships between kids, youth, and adults. Faith should be lived out in community with one another, and the kids who are a part of our churches need to be a part of the larger community with all generations.

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In this month’s Online Parenting Class, we encourage parents to consider the power of intentional intergenerational discipleship and work to surround their kids with trusted people of all ages who can spur them on in faith. Church is a great place for the next generation to be surrounded by, poured into, taught by, and intentionally cultivate relationships with past (and future) generations. For this to happen, parents must be proactive in identifying, inviting, and helping to surround their kids with multiple voices of wisdom, maturity, truth, and influence. This Online Parenting Class Video will provide parents with thoughtful insights, creative ideas, and practical steps they can take to make intergenerational discipleship a fundamental part of their kid’s faith development.

To view, click HERE.

New blog posts coming this month:

  • For Kids’ Ministry Leaders: “One Generation to Another” by Amy Diller
  • For Kids’ Ministry Parents: “Much More than Babysitters” by Amy Diller
  • For Youth Ministry Leaders: “Building a Faith that Lasts through Intergenerational Discipleship” by Karin Sasser
  • For Youth Ministry Parents: “Growing an Enduring Faith through Intergenerational Relationships” by Karin Sasser

To view, click HERE. 

Intergenerational Discipleship In Children’s Ministry

When it comes to developing the children’s ministry that God has called you to build and glorify Him with, you can approach it in many ways. There are so many elements to include, systems to build, curriculum to develop, craft materials to purchase, volunteers to recruit/train, parents to equip, safety measures to implement, and things to pay attention to (like making sure no kids go unaccounted for). We want to develop a ministry that kids love and one that they want to come back to. But the real goal should be building and fostering a culture of discipleship where kids are coming to know, love, and follow Jesus—and one of the best ways to do that is not through crafts, puppets, or fun songs but through intentional intergenerational discipleship.

Intergenerational discipleship simply alludes to creating an environment where older generations can pass on faith to younger generations, and younger generations can encourage older generations to stay strong. Hebrews 10:24 says, “Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.” Intergenerational discipleship simply helps different generations build faith-filled relationships with one another for the purpose of encouraging each other in their walk with God, and the church is the best place for this to happen.

This month’s coaching video dives into this idea. Our hope is that it will challenge you and those who serve alongside you to take some steps to help parents better understand the importance of this concept of intergenerational discipleship in children’s ministry while you and your team work to create a healthy ministry culture that intentionally fosters and celebrates intergenerational discipleship. This is an important part of children’s ministry to pay attention to, so take some time to think about it, pray about it, talk it over with your team, and determine what you can do to take some steps in this area.

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Building Faith And Moving The Needle Through Intergenerational Discipleship

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Subject Line: Building Intergenerational Discipleship into Your Family

Dear Parents,

When it comes to passing on faith to your children, what’s your strategy? Obviously, you’re working to have a growing and vibrant faith yourself. You want to have your child involved in a church where they can learn the stories of God and develop a solid foundation. You may not know this, but you also need to be highly intentional when it comes to connecting your kids to older generations who will model faith and encourage your kids as they grow. You need intergenerational discipleship!

This month, we are going to provide you with some resources that we hope will paint a picture for you of what healthy intergenerational discipleship could look like for you and your family. Our Online Parenting Class Video and Toolbox Resource entitled The 4 I’s of Intended Influence: A Parent’s Guide To Intentional Intergenerational Discipleship will help you better understand the importance of intergenerational discipleship and give you some practical steps to take.

To watch this month’s Online Parenting Class video, click the link below.

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Cheering you on!

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Subject Line: Moving the Needle of Faith Through Intergenerational Discipleship

Dear Parents,

As we continue to seek to help you lead your kids spiritually, we have a thought for you. One of the most important things you can do as a parent is connect your kids to significant, older adults who will pour into them spiritually. Sure, you want your kids to enjoy coming to church and participating in all the events. But the thing that will really move the needle when it comes to them growing in their faith is helping them develop relationships with adults in your church who will spur them on in their faith. We call this intergenerational discipleship.

This month’s resources, like our Online Parenting Class Video and Toolbox Resource, entitled The 4 I’s of Intended Influence: A Parent’s Guide To Intentional Intergenerational Discipleship, will help you better understand the importance of intergenerational discipleship and take some steps into it.  Also, check out this month’s blog article that will offer you some Scripture, encouragement, and some practical ideas on learning how grandparents can be so much more than babysitters in the life of your child. And if you haven’t watched this month’s encouraging Online Parenting Class video, you still have time. To read the blog article or watch the video, click on the links below.

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We are in this together! Let us know if there is ever anything we can do for you or your family.

Praying for you as you lead at home,

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M2P August KIDS Parent Video Script

As parents of kids, we kind of have a lot going on.

When it comes to raising our kids spiritually, we need to acknowledge a few things. First, we need to embrace the fact that we are the primary spiritual leaders for our kids. They look to us to teach them about faith and model what it means to have a relationship with God. If we want for our kids to grow into disciples of Jesus, we need to lead the way. The second thing we need to acknowledge is the fact that we need help. We need help to better understand our kids, we need help when it comes to certain issues, and we need other adults saying the same things we are saying so our kids hear about a relationship with God from people who are not us. What we need is an intergenerational cloud of witnesses helping our kids grow in their faith.

Today, I want for you to think about the idea of intergenerational discipleship. Now, intergenerational discipleship means exactly what it says. It’s discipleship that happens in the midst of all the generations together. We should want for our kids to be in an environment where they have the opportunity to meet, build relationships with, and learn from people of all ages. In church, this can sometimes naturally happen with Sunday school teachers or small group leaders but imagine what would happen if we, as their parents, took it further.

Years ago, I heard about a reverse ratio. Typically, when you assemble a group of kids for a class or a group or a field trip, there needs to be a ratio of one adult for every 6/8/10 kids. You have to determine what the best number is. Well, the reverse ratio says this. As kids are growing up, there needs to be five adults surrounding every kid, pouring into them, teaching them, and encouraging them in their faith. And I would argue that a few of their five need to be from an older, more seasoned generation. Many of you have our parents who fit this category, and that’s great. If your parents are followers of Jesus and want to be a part of discipling your kids, lean into that for sure. But some of our kids don’t have grandparents who want to pour into them spiritually, so we have to find that influence elsewhere, and hopefully, that’s in your church.

As a parent, here are a few things you can do. First, make sure your kids are as involved in church as much as possible. As I mentioned, Sunday school, small groups, and “big church” are all great places for your kids to rub shoulders with people in older generations. Get to know the adults who are leading your kids and foster those relationships. What if you invited someone who is leading your child over for dinner one night or out to lunch with your family after church? You have the opportunity to bring people closer to your kids as you seek help in discipling them.

Secondly, look for opportunities to surround your kids with new, again maybe older voices who can encourage them and model what having a real faith looks like. My guess is that there are people in your church who might not teach or volunteer every week, but they can have a presence in your child’s life that will make a real difference. It’s your job to foster these kinds of relationships so that your child is in an environment where intergenerational discipleship happens.

And finally, I would encourage you to be involved in the discipleship of other kids in your church. This could mean that you become a teacher or a leader. Maybe you volunteer at events or coach a team or something else. Or it could simply mean that you make an effort to meet other families in your church and pay attention to the kids, encouraging them along the way. You can play a role in the discipleship of someone else’s kids. You could be a part of some kids 5.

I hope that your kids are going to be a part of the kids’ ministry at your church, where they are surrounded by other kids, they can build friendships, and they can be led by a least one caring adult. But don’t miss the power of a bigger picture of intergenerational discipleship. Do whatever you can to surround your kids with cool, young, hip leaders who your kids will fall in love with, but also surround them with older, more seasoned adults who can share a depth of faith that will have a tremendous impact on your child.

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Your July Resources Are Here!

If there’s one thing that we all know as children’s ministry leaders and parents of kids, it’s the fact that they are growing up in a world that is VERY different from the world that any of us grew up in. The struggles of life are not only different, but they are also hitting them earlier, faster, from more angles, and with greater intensity. Whether it’s friends, social media, the constant barrage of sensational news from around the world, global catastrophes, mental health crises, the pressure of getting good grades, fitting in, the pressure to perform, or emotional/financial stress at home, there is plenty to navigate, no matter their age. As our children try to wrap their young minds around these struggles and attempt to formulate their emotional responses to them, they often get bogged down or confused concerning how to process or deal with their own thoughts and emotions. Much of this struggle is leading them to feel a sense of anxiety around…well, a lot of things in their life. The stress and anxiety they feel often can lead them to very unhealthy places mentally and emotionally. These struggles play into their spiritual life, and that’s why we, as adults, have to pay attention, lean into what is happening to our kids, and respond in ways that are healthy and helpful.

This month, your team at M2P is providing you with resources that are aimed at helping parents gain a better understanding of what their kids are going through and equipping them with some practical tools to help their families along the way.

Don’t forget to check out the Blog Articles and  Coaching Video designed for you and your adult volunteers, the Online Parenting Class Video and Toolbox Item entitled 10 Ideas To Help Your Child Navigate & Cope With Anxiety created for parents, and listen to the latest episode of the M2P Podcast with a special guest who just wrote an excellent book on anxiety, Brock Morgan. These resources are designed to give parents some insight and encouragement as they seek to lean in and lead their kids away from an anxious life and hopefully guide them to a life of peace.

Remember that we are here to serve you and to help you serve parents, so let us know if there is ever anything we can do for you or your children’s ministry.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:6-7

The M2P Team

 

This month’s Toolbox Resource targets an issue that so many families are dealing with on a regular basis. Anxiety among our kids is escalating at an unprecedented rate. Everyone who cares about their own child or young people, in general, is concerned about the staggering rise in childhood and teenage anxiety. Parents are often especially at a loss when it comes to knowing where to begin with helping their kids navigate these dicey waters. The 10 Ideas To Help Your Child Navigate & Cope With Anxiety resource will provide parents with some practical steps to take as they seek to wade in, lean in, and begin to guide their children in a healthy direction.

HOW TO USE IT

  • Download the 10 Ideas To Help Your Child Navigate & Cope With Anxiety resource and post it on your website or email parents a copy of the resources.
  • Encourage parents to take some time to review it and use one or more of these ideas with their kids.
  • Print copies of the resources for parents to grab at church and let them know where they can pick it up.

To view or download, click HERE.

This month’s coaching videos were created to help us, as children’s ministry leaders and volunteers, make sure that we stay aware of what is happening when it comes to kids, parents, and anxiety. As children’s ministry leaders and volunteers, it may seem overwhelming and like you don’t know where to begin, but in reality, there are lots of things that we can do to help support families if we pay attention to the struggles they are facing. It’s sometimes easy to get sucked into the vortex of our weekly events, programming, and other responsibilities, but the real ministry happens when we take the time to help people where they are hurting and in need. And we all know that anxiety is leading kids, and parents into a world of confusion, doubt, and hurt. Take some time to watch the videos and pray through how you can practically help the kids and parents in your care deal with the anxiety they feel.

To view, click HERE.

As kids today are struggling with anxiety at an alarming and unprecedented rate, parents often are at a loss for what to do or how to help. Some parents respond by defaulting to engaging their kids with old-school methods that were used on them. Some parents respond by sticking their heads in the sand, hoping that if they can somehow simply ignore what is happening in their child, the storm will soon pass, and things will go back to normal. Some parents respond by becoming anxious themselves or by throwing up their hands from being overwhelmed or exhausted. None of these is a great, healthy, or helpful response. That is why this month’s Online Parenting Classes were designed to encourage parents to lean in, keep their heads out of the sand, and not give up, but instead stay in the fight when it comes to helping their kids navigate their anxiety. Anxiety in kids doesn’t appear to be going away anytime soon, and we, as children’s ministry leaders, have a unique opportunity to help lead, encourage, and equip parents as they seek to help their kids navigate anxiety.

To view, click HERE.

New blog posts coming this month:

  • For Kids’ Ministry Leaders: “Childhood Anxiety: Practical Ways to Support Families” by Amy Diller
  • For Kids’ Ministry Parents: “Hope for the Anxious Child: Parenting with Empathy and Wisdom” by Amy Diller
  • For Youth Ministry Leaders: “Leading Families Away from Anxiety” by Karin Sasser
  • For Youth Ministry Parents: “Promoting Peace in the Lives of Our Teens” by Karin Sasser

To view, click HERE. 

Ministering to Kids & Parents in an Anxious World

There is no doubt that one of the most common issues we are dealing with as children’s ministry leaders and volunteers these days is the fact that our kids are under more and more stress and are experiencing real anxiety every day. This anxiety can be paralyzing to them and can lead them to unhealthy thoughts and actions that spiral them into a difficult place. Parents are often either oblivious about what is really happening with their kids or at a loss when it comes to how to help their kids and lead them in a positive, faith-filled direction. As children’s ministry leaders and volunteers, we are uniquely positioned to speak both to the kids and to their parents as we seek to help.

There are lots of things we can do as we are on this journey with families. If we start by taking time to talk about the issue (publicly and privately) and acknowledge what is going on, we open the door for real conversations that can have a real impact. We can spend time in prayer for kids and parents as they navigate the emotions they feel. We can also educate ourselves on the common signs and symptoms of anxiety so we can be aware when a family is in the midst of this struggle.

This month, we want to encourage you and your team to be intentional about engaging in this difficult topic by listening to the felt needs of the families, stepping into critical conversations with kids and parents, and offering parents practical tools that can give them confidence as they try to help their kids navigate the anxiety they feel. We have provided you with a few tangible things, like this month’s Toolbox Resource entitled 10 Ideas To Help Your Child Navigate & Cope With Anxiety, that you can offer to parents as they wade through this ever-growing issue and the Online Parenting Class that hits the issue head-on and has some ideas about how you can leverage your role to help families.

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Helping Your Child Navigate And Cope With Anxiety

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Subject Line: Navigating Childhood Anxiety

Dear Parents,

When you think about your kids and all they have to deal with in today’s world, there is an issue that continues to be on the rise. Sadly, anxiety is something that is increasingly creeping into the lives of our kids, and it’s something that is starting earlier and earlier in life. Most kids today deal with some sort of anxiety, and, as parents, you have the unique opportunity to pay close attention to what is happening with your kids and help them learn to navigate these very real feelings in healthy ways. This month, we want to help you think about what you can do to be proactive in your child’s struggle with stressors, fears, and anxious thoughts. The Online Parenting Class and Toolbox Resource entitled 10 Ideas To Help Your Child Navigate & Cope With Anxiety will provide you with some suggestions for how you can engage with your child as they encounter these feelings. These resources will place some practical tools at your fingertips that you can use to lean into conversations with your child that will help them grow as they learn how to navigate their thoughts, feelings, and emotions.

To watch this month’s Online Parenting Class video, click the link below.

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You can do this! We are always here for you if you need us.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:6-7

Cheering you on,

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Subject Line: Helping Your Kids Cope with Anxiety

Dear Parents,

When it comes to helping your children navigate stress and anxiety, what’s your strategy? In today’s world, kids are being forced to grow up and deal with thoughts and issues that their developing brains aren’t equipped to process. Much of their mental and emotional struggles lead them to experience real anxiety that they have no idea how to cope with. As their parent, you are best positioned to help them navigate these thoughts and emotions, and we want to help. This month’s resources are designed to give you helpful and practical ideas/tools to lead your child to a healthy place.

Check out this month’s blog article, “Hope For The Anxious Child: Parenting With Empathy & Wisdom,” and the Toolbox Resource entitled 10 Ideas To Help Your Child Navigate & Cope With Anxiety for some much-needed encouragement and some practical ideas as to what you can do as their parent to help your child learn how to move through life and deal with the anxieties they will no doubt face in a healthy way.

And if you haven’t watched this month’s encouraging Online Parenting Class Video, you still have time. To read the blog article or watch the video, click on the links below.

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We are in this together! Let us know if there is ever anything we can do for you or your family.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:6-7

Praying for you as you lead at home,

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M2P July KIDS Parent Video Script

When my children were little, I remember them being afraid of a variety of things from time to time. Fear of the dark, loud storms, and new situations, to name a few. My oldest slept with her light on for a time because she said she liked it better, which we knew was because the dark was scary for her. My youngest daughter was scared at bedtime because she thought she was going to have bad dreams, so we prayed with her each night and added a little p.s. that her dreams would be filled with puppies, kitties, cupcakes, and sprinkles.

Children typically experience fears at different points growing up, especially during periods of change like going to school for the first time, moving to a new house, meeting new people, or unfamiliar situations. These things are normal, and the anxious behavior kids display typically goes away after a while. It doesn’t downplay children’s concerns at all, and parents’ help to alleviate these fears is vital.

Anxiety is defined as a condition characterized by excessive apprehensiveness about real or perceived threats, typically leading to avoidance behaviors and often to physical symptoms. We know that based on current statistics and studies, anxiety among younger children is on the rise. As parents, we need to be aware of common signs and symptoms children might display and have tools to help them.

Anxiety in kids can present differently than in teens or adults. Chronic tummy aches, headaches, irritability, trouble sleeping, not wanting to be away from parents, and unusual clinginess can all indicate the presence of anxiety. Irrational fears or extreme worry can also be present, making a child feel anxious.

So, what can a parent do if a child displays signs of anxiety? First of all, pray for the Lord’s wisdom and discernment. Ask Him to guide and direct you in addressing your child’s needs and to understand what you’re seeing in his or her behavior. Pray with your child, too. Using scripture as you pray is a wonderful way to plant the seeds of God’s Word in the heart of your child. Helping your child memorize verses about the Lord’s peace, love, and protection is a way to equip them with His truth.

An important tool to embrace is to lead with empathy and compassion. Sometimes our response is to jump in and try to fix the problem, telling our child why they don’t need to be afraid. That’s not a bad approach, but it’s not the first thing a parent should do. Instead, meet your child’s fear first with an abundance of love, understanding, and assurance that all will be okay. Childhood fears and worries are very real and can be overwhelming; offering compassion validates a child’s feelings. Empathy calms an anxious heart. When this is your first response, your child will be better able to feel comforted in the safety of your love. It also opens the door for your child to see the love of Jesus expressed through your actions and to know that He is with them in all things.

Finally, it’s important to know when it’s time to seek professional help. If anxiety doesn’t lessen over a reasonable period of time with your guidance, if fears and worries increase in intensity, or if your child presents with constant physical symptoms, it would be a very good idea to reach out for evaluation and assistance. Start with an exam at your pediatrician’s office to be sure physical symptoms are caused by anxiety or if there are underlying conditions causing problems. Ask church leaders for recommendations of therapists who can help you and your child deal with anxieties. It is especially helpful to see someone who specializes in therapy for children if one is available near you.

Be encouraged that there is hope and healing for your child’s troubled mind and heart. There is wisdom available to you from the Lord, from other parents who have walked the path with an anxious child, and from your church leaders. Lavish your child with empathy and compassion, speak words of God’s truth to him or her and seek professional help when needed.