Discipleship. What a big word (in more ways than one). It’s kind of the bullseye of what we should be trying to accomplish as leaders in children’s ministry. We want to help the kids in our church to understand what it means to have a relationship with God and be true followers and students of Jesus. Sure, we’re tasked with running groups, planning and leading events, and creating fun, special events. But we should really be all about setting these little ones in our midst on a path that will lead them into a lifelong faith in God. That’s discipleship!
But, if we’re honest, we often take on the brunt of this burden, and we leave out the people who are best positioned to disciple these kids, their parents. Parents should be (and are) the primary disciplers of their children because they are the ones who have the most significant influence on their child’s development. Children learn by example, and parents are their primary role models. By setting a positive example, consistently sharing faith, and setting boundaries, parents can help their children develop spiritual discipline, self-control, and respect for authority. Additionally, when parents take an active role in disciplining their children, they can tailor their approach to fit their child’s unique personality and needs. This personalized approach can be more effective than relying solely on what happens (or doesn’t happen) at church.
This month we want to encourage you and your team to continue to be intentional when it comes to encouraging parents to step into their role as the primary spiritual leaders in the home. Maybe expand your picture of what you are called to do as you seek to minister to the families in your church. You are not just called to disciple the kids in your ministry, but you are called to lead and disciple the people (parents) who are called to lead and disciple their kids. Again, that’s discipleship. Want to think about this a little more? Check out this month’s coaching video.
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